love is sacrifice...
12.02.07 (7:24 am) [edit]There's nothing hard for a man in love, not even waiting for a very long time. there is this story in the bible where the guy(forgot his name) worked for the father of the woman(forgot her name also) he really loves for 14 years just for him to get the hands of the girl. This is a very good example of a man, deeply in love, going to great length of time, to have the girl she loves.
as i said, liking does not mean loving. but i would like to use the phrase in terms of liking and commiting in a relationship. a man, that likes a girl so much and wants her to be her girlfriend, needs first to go through a great lenght of time before he start courting the girl. this great lenght of time is very indefinte. you can't say that you will court her on your second year nor when you alread y have work. This is because this great length of time, i think, refers to the time you need to become mature. This can be longer or earlier than you have expected. no one can't predict the time he will become be mature. let me reiterate what I said in my previous post, a guy must be mature before he commits himself and this is the reason why i think it refers to the time it will take you to be mature. A guy must be mature before he commits because an immature person only wants love but can't give love in return. and if a imature person commits himself on a relationship, the relationship will not work definitely.
(i am sorry because i think i wasn't effective on pointing out what i want. i will edit this sometime in the future. i just need consultation)