Commitment.....always with prudence
10.19.07 (7:38 am) [edit]Commitment is a very dangerous word. It could destroy many things, friendship, family, relationship and even yourself... we should not be afraid to commit ourselves. Actually we need to commit. We need to commit on many things. We should commit ourselves to our studies, to our responsibility in our family, to our relationship, if u have one, and especially to God. Don not make any commitment if you can not do it... I am not afraid to commit myself to a relationship. It is just that I know that I will have difficult time concentrating on my studies. I am still adjusting to a new chapter in my life... I Love you... these three words should not be just said to like a normal thing coz this phrase means a lot…..it is like a commitment. maybe what you are feeling right now is just infatuation or it iss just that ur attracted to him or her… maybe an appropriate term would be “I like you”.. . Promises should always be kept. For if you dont, youll make other people waste their time which is a very precious thing. If you couldnt make what you promised tell the person you’ve promised to so that lesser time will be wasted. Try to ask yourself if you have not kept a promise causing others to waste their time to examine your day before you sleep.
posted by: Ace (reply)
post date: 10.19.07 (11:57 pm)
ang lalim naman ng blog mo. "PARANG BALON (Delos Santos, 2007)"
Pero i cannot agree more. What you're saying is true! Really ture!
haha!
One thing lang na hindi ako masyado agree: na its hard to concentrate on the studies when you have a relationship to keep.
hmm. i know so many people na "successful" sa studies
still have time for a relationship.
Dont be afraid! [unsolicited advice, haha!]
pero there are so many factors to be considered di eh.
siguro you made the right decision naman. haha!
posted by: chazer16xyz (reply)
post date: 10.20.07 (12:07 am)
tnx for your comment... it's for my case... well i know that i am still not that mature enough like those people you know to be able to balance those two things... but i will someday definitely commit myself to the girl i really love but for now, i need to concentrate on my studies because i am a scholar and once i am out of the scholarship program, i will definitely have to transfer to another school. and besides, i don't want to fail many people and my previous school especially my parents......
posted by: Ace (reply)
post date: 10.20.07 (3:38 pm)
Naks!
Its really a good thing that you've got your priorities straight.
Its nice that you know what to focus on first.
I guess you've made the right decision nga. Tama! There's a right time for everything.
Considering other people first before yourself is a hard thing to do. Naks! And you're saying that you're not mature enough, weh! From my point of view, it seems na mature ka na. Kahanga-hanga! [seryoso to] kasi minsan (or kadalasan) may mga taong inuuna ang sarili e, and always ending up failing themselves and other people too.
posted by: Jes (reply)
post date: 10.20.07 (10:26 pm)
Mature people know how to balance everything in their life. Studies, friends, family, relationship/s and other personal things.
I know a lot of people [some of my high school friends] weren't able to focus. They put their relationships as their top priority to the point that they leave the rest behind.
posted by: shobe chi (reply)
post date: 10.22.07 (8:45 am)
so mature kuya..
its soooo like kuya! hehhehehe.
those three words (for me) are heavy on their own.
its true that in most cases, kadikit na nian ang commitment.
but then, it depend on the person pa rin.
posted by: chazer (reply)
post date: 10.22.07 (9:05 am)
if you say I Love you, u r commiting urself to the person... so it can't happen that some people will say I love you but will not commit theirselves, because if one does, he is a liar. He really don't love the girl...